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Dan’s Pants

Dan’s world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon.

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

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TwentyBiTeen

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen!

A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

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Best of 2018

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson from our special episode A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans, and highlights from our 100th Episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival. 

This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.

Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate 

A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Santa

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we’re delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018. Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. — A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Fairytale of New York

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****… is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their singing. Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. — A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

STI

Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this ‘depression stuff’ James talks about just ‘podcast content’? 

Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop!

This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.

A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

World Aids Day 2018

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection.

Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it’s like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London’s Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance – that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia’s HIV epidemic.  

Please don’t take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your doctor or we recommend these resources:

Terrence Higgins Trust

Greater Than Aids

I Want Prep Now

The Aids Memorial on instagram tells stories of love, loss and remembrance. 

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Wrestling

It’s a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE and hitting people for ‘entertainment’ just another display of toxic masculinity? And is all male BOYLESQUE basically just porn? And if you want to impress Dan, don’t get your dick out. Order pizza. 25 of them.

Support the boys in this weekend’s 10K #RedRun in aid of Positive East on Worlds Aids Day.

If you’re in London, get tickets for Briefs Close Encounters at Christmas.

A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Deep Feelings

How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR – James is no longer dating.

Podcasters anonymous – tell us your woes: us@gaynongay.com

A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Isolation

We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn’t even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed

Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate 

A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him – @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him – @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)